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Over-giving was a natural way to be when I was growing up. I was totally oblivious to the fact that there even was such a thing, until I got older and started to realize a lot of my friendships and relationships were one sided and I was feeling depleted and under-appreciated.  

I had to really sit down with myself and look at the life I had created around myself and where it steamed from.

I know the majority of us being emphatic deal with the issue of over-giving. So I wanted to share a few tips with you that have helped me along my journey.  Here are 4 questions you can ask yourself. 

 

1~ Are you filling up before you flow out? Or are you giving on an empty tank? Anytime we give from a place of depletion, we are over-giving. 

 

2~ What is your WHY behind your giving? Get clear on your intentions of why you over-give. Is it coming from a genuine place of love or a place of wanted to be loved? 

 

3~ When you give to this certain person, company, charity or situation do you feel Full or empty afterwards?  Does it feel like a balanced exchange.

 

4~ Am I giving as a way to not fully receive? Sometimes we over-give to mask over the fact that we are actually just not fully receiving in our own life. 

 

Much Love & Aloha

Melissa

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